Monday, June 10, 2013

Cliff Diving


Every year the Razorbacks for Christ go on a fall retreat to Burnt Cabin, right off Lake Tenkiller in Oklahoma.  On Saturday afternoon, some of the braver and/or more stupid souls go cliff diving.  It is an interesting experience, to say the least.  Once you do it, it is pretty much cemented in your mind.  The long walk there, trying to focus on anything other than jumping off the cliff so you don’t psyc yourself out before you even get there.  Standing on the edge looking down, trying to see the rocks and where it would be best to jump from.  The short run, getting enough momentum to clear the edge of the cliff and any rocks right at the base.  The jump, the point of no return, the moment you actually reject the safety of the cliff for the thrill of the fall and the unknown landing to follow.  The fall, a bit of preparation for the landing.  And then you hit.  Complete immersion, then struggling to the surface.  Swim back to the shore, recuperate, then get back to the cliff and do it all again.

Coming to the Czech Republic has been remarkably similar to jumping off a cliff.  In the days leading up to coming here, I was trying my best to not thing too much about leaving home for a full 2 months without an adult there with me the entire time.  Eventually, the time came to leave home, and I was running like crazy.  Volleyball with the RFC’s Tuesday night, then packing, sleeping a few hours, chores Wednesday morning, then to Glen Rose/Hot Springs for FFA state convention Wednesday afternoon, off to Pocahontas Wednesday night/Thursday morning, sleep a few hours, then to Memphis airport Thursday afternoon.  I can’t quite decide which point is the jump- stepping foot on the plane in Memphis to start our flights, or stepping on at Minneapolis with the next stop being across the great pond at Amsterdam.  Regardless, somewhere along the line I jumped and began flying through the air, with the inevitable immersion into the Czech culture at the end.  I think landing in Prague was getting the feet wet, and the subsequent talking to David, riding on a train (it was quite nice), riding on a tram, getting settled into the dorm (home for the next 2 months), eating supper (sandwiches in the girls room with flat Kofola to drink and Milka for dessert), and then making my bed (traditional Czech bed, comforter with dubet(?) cover) put me about up to my waist.  Saturday, meeting with the team for lunch (at Opera off the main square in Olomouc- Italian, but good food) and then the tour around Olomouc (due to the festivities on the square, we missed quite a bit, plus we were tired, but we did see a couple of cathedrals and had time for grocery shopping) dunked me under.  Sunday, with intern’s orientation (just a little bit of information, ha ha ha!), then church (a small, rather informal, but very good, service with several Czech students and other locals attending), and running around Olomouc with a couple of the Czech students, I hit bottom about 10 feet under the surface, and started fighting back up.  It has been a crazy couple days! 

A few things about cliff diving/entering a foreign culture- 
Make sure you jump, and then focus on where you are going.  It does you no good to look back at the cliff as you are falling, wishing you were back there.  You aren’t going to make it.  Focus on the landing, on how you enter into the culture you are falling towards.
Be careful how you land.  Too far forward and all the air is knocked out of you.  You end up 10 feet below the surface looking up, knowing that when you surface you won’t be able to breathe for quite a while.  Not fun.  If you try to make a big splash, or you aren’t careful, you land doing a cannonball and break your tailbone.  Remember, you aren’t in Kansas anymore- the same rules do not apply.  Let go of your preconceptions and assumptions, try to accept and embrace as much of the culture as you can.  Sure, you go deeper into the water, but you don’t get everyone wet and you don’t get hurt.  Just because you accept and enjoy their culture doesn’t mean you are losing yourself.  Unless you are made of sugar and melt in water, in which case jumping off an 80 foot cliff isn’t a good idea to begin with.  Luckily(?) I don’t have that problem…

I hope this finds everyone well.  We are all safe and healthy here, and certainly enjoying our time.  It is hard not to fall in love with the Czech culture!  Just today, on one tram ride, three different Czech people, from low teens to mid twenties, offered to give up their seat to older people.  It warms the heart to see such kindness and respect.

As for entering into other cultures, I am reminded of Paul’s assertion to the Corinthians in I Corinthians 9:19-23, “Though I am free and belong to no man, I make myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible.  To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews.  To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law.  To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law.  To the weak I became weak, to win the weak.  I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some.  I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings.”

God bless!
John Coffey

Thursday, May 30, 2013

The Open Door


Right now, I am standing in the doorway of an open door.   I have stood in front of many such doors before, and God willing I will stand in front of many more.  It has taken me a while to get here, 20 years in fact, but now one week stands between me and crossing that threshold.  In one week, Bree and I will be flying out, headed to the Czech Republic to do an internship with a mission team in Olomouc.  One week really isn't that long, but right now it seems forever away...

We started this blog to keep our supporters, or other interested parties, up to date on what is happening in the Czech Republic (Hopefully, everything is working like we want it to, and you can go from one blog to another without much trouble.  The likelihood of it actually working, however, is slim... Sorry!), and decided it would be good to post something before we went, so those that don't know us can get aquatinted.   Unfortunately, I am really bad at sharing about me, unless I am given semi-specific questions to answer.  Usually I either give too much information, or not enough.  If either happens to be the case, please forgive me.

I was born in Parsons, Kansas, but my family moved to Prairie Grove, Arkansas when I was almost 4.  Recently I have been able to visit the church in Parsons, and was blessed to find that their love for my family and me still abounds.  Their example shows that there is still a lot about God and love that I have yet to understand, experience, or implement in my life.

When we first moved to Prairie Grove, we spent some time searching for a good church family, and found one close to home.  The church at Prairie Grove took an active part in raising me up to be the Christian I am today.  Through their love, care, and guidance, I made it through public school.

Evidently, God wasn't very happy with where I was.  After graduating, He put a series of opportunities in front of me that have caused me to grow more in the past two years than at any other time in my life. The summer after I graduated, I was elected to FFA state office, where I learned a lot about myself, leadership, and service to others.  That fall, I went to the University of Arkansas, pursuing a Civil Engineering degree.  I got involved with the Razorbacks for Christ, a campus ministry sponsored by the Mt. Comfort church of Christ, which I attend during the school year.  Where state office has helped me a lot with leadership and service, the RFC's and Mt Comfort pushed me to grow spiritually, in ways I had previously only imagined.  I guess God became more than an obscure idea- He became real.  As my freshman year went on, I continued to grow more and more, until I no longer saw who I had been as a Christian.  I could say and do the right things, but not because of love for God.  And so on April 5, 2012, I was baptized.  

Since then, God has continued to work through me.  I retired from state office in June, and left later that month for a month long mission trip in the Czech Republic.  It is hard to explain exactly how much God worked in me while in the Czech Republic.  Simply put, God continued to open my eyes to who He is and what He wants from me.  It's a little confusing at times, but I trust that He will make it all work out.  

I made it back to the US, but things weren't quite the same.  While I enjoy civil engineering, it is no longer what I want to do with my life.  So my plan changed.  I am going to finish my degree, but am still not sure where I want to go after that.  Maybe I will go into long term mission work.  Maybe I will pursue a ministry related degree, in preaching, collegiate ministry, or mission work.  I don't really know.  Hopefully, this internship will help me explore my options, and give me a better grasp of where in God's Kingdom I will fit.  For now, I am watching and waiting in anticipation...

Too much?  Quite possibly...  But that is me for you.

Please keep us in your prayers, and pray for those we will interact with, that they may recognize the power of God in our lives.

God bless,
John Coffey